The early morning wave.....

   Through rain or snow, sleet or hail. No, this is not going to be about the postal service, although there are several things that would make for an interesting column or two regarding the postal service and its ability to get packages to different locations around the country in a timely fashion. Those might be a topics for another week.

   The rain or snow and most of the time sun I am speaking about takes place on my early morning walk with Lucky. I am usually up by six each morning and after a quick cup of coffee, Lucky and I take our first of several walks of the day. It's not a long walk, just long enough for him to stake out his territory on either side of the road for the other dogs in the neighborhood who will take the similar walk. But today, this is not about Lucky, but about the early morning wave.

   I live in a small rural town in central Maine, a residential community. Many who live here work in nearby towns. Homes in the neighborhood are well maintained and lawns are neatly mowed. It is a nice, generally quiet neighborhood and at this early hour of the day, one might expect not a great deal of traffic traveling through the “hood”.  But...to the contrary. And not only are there cars, there are joggers, bikers and on the weekends, a number of early morning walkers.

   Lucky just turned 5 years old, so the morning walk has become pretty much a daily routine for the past few years now and through the snow and freezing rains of winter or the spring and summer showers there are very few days that we  are not out on the road as the sun comes up.

   The bikers and joggers, most wearing headphones or ear buds keep a steady pace as they pass. Some nod, other manage a subtle wave, some even say “good morning.” Over time, Lucky has come to recognize some of them and he ignores them now and continues to set the pace for our morning walk.

   Even the cars that travel through the neighborhood have become familiar to both Lucky and me. I think he recognizes the sounds and maybe the colors. Perhaps he can tell the difference between a Ford or a Subaru, but I doubt it. For me, however, I recognize folks behind the wheel by their morning wave or lack of one.

   Actually, it can be quite entertaining to watch people as they turn the corner. There are those who keep their eyes focused on the road, staring straight ahead, ignoring us as we patiently wait for them to pass. There are others on their cell phones, talking up a storm. 
   Others will acknowledge us with a slight signal of the index finger, either left or right hand. Some call this the Maine wave I think. (Perhaps the Maine legislature can pass a bill naming the finger wave as the 'official state wave'.)

    There are others who often give a thumbs up, perhaps a commentary on my fleece pajama bottoms with the Red Sox logo. No, I am not going to shower and dress at this hour to take Lucky for a walk.. Besides, if they can be worn while shopping in at the local grocery store.....now there's a sight  :)

   Then there are those who wave each and every time I see them, whether it be first thing in the morning or later in the day as they may be on their way home. And to be honest, these are the folks who I look forward to seeing each day. It means that maybe, just maybe, all is right with the world, at least for today.
   As silly as it sounds, that early morning wave can set the tone for the entire day, for me and maybe for them, no matter if it's sunny and warm or there is a fresh three inches of snow on the roadway. (Now, I am sure it may be the Red Sox fleece pajama bottoms that sets the tone for some folks for the day. I mean, come on. But at least I don't wear them in public, like at Walmart.)

   One of the things I have noticed recently is an increase in the traffic in the early morning hours. Birchwood Terrace can be a short cut for many for getting from one side of town to the other and with all the pending and current road construction work, people may be looking for an easy way to get around the congestion. This particular morning seemed to be extra busy with new cars and trucks. Even Lucky noticed. He didn't like that black pickup truck at all! 

   So, to the new travelers through the neighborhood at six in the morning, welcome. Keep it under 30 mph and by all means, don't forget to wave.

                                            

                                               

Old wives tales, truth or fiction....

   It was a bright sunny day, late in the month of May. There was a cool breeze blowing in from the north, a warning of  an impending cold night and potential late Spring frost. 

   We walked the streets of the Old Port in Portland, Maine, and even though it was a Friday, there seemed to be a number of tourists. You can always spot the tourist. They all are looking up at the sky, hoping to see a sea gull and are wearing brand new LL Bean sweatshirts (no, the sea gulls are not wearing the new sweatshirts). 

   I am sure they  just wanted to get an early start on the long weekend, part of Maine's financial growth plan to improve our economy. We really do like the people from away to come spend their money here, even if it does make for congested streets and highways.

   After a few hours of  shopping, (Lucky and I window shopped) it was time to return to the house  to enjoy a glass or two of wine before the family barbecue. A glass of wine, some cheese and crackers and an interesting discussion, what more could a body want? 

   Somehow the discussion focused on old wives tales and how true they may have been. Were they truth or some form of urban legend? I mean, how many times did your mother warn you about something like... “stepping on a crack will break your mother's back”. Was she really that worried about her back being broken?

   I can remember my grandmother looking out the window and if the leaves on the trees were turned up, she made sure she took an umbrella with her if she was going out of the house to the hair dresser. In her mind, without a doubt, it was going to rain!

   There are old wives tales about all kinds of topics. Here are just a few of my favorites.

   “If the nose itches, company is coming. If the thumb itches, it will be unwelcome company. If your left hand itches, money is coming your way. If your ears are ringing, someone is talking about you. The right ear means they are saying good things. The left ear means they are criticizing you.” No wonder there were times that it is really noisy in my head!

   “Red sky in the morning, sailor’s warning, Red sky at night, sailor’s delight.” But what's it mean if there is a red sky at noon time? Oh...lunch time.

   “An apple a day keeps the doctor away." Apples are good!

   Cat's have always held a special place in wives tale and folklore. For example...

   “If a black cat walks towards you, it brings good fortune, but if it walks away, it takes the good luck with it.”
   “Keep cats away from babies because they "suck the breath" of the child.”
   “A cat on board a ship is considered to bring luck.” OK. Who takes a cat on a boat?

   I have spent years on my hands and knees looking for that 'lucky four leaf clover'. Perhaps I would have better spent my time buying lottery tickets. The result would probably have been the same.

   This is one I had not heard before, but maybe does explain a thing or two.

   “To drop a comb while you are combing your hair is a sign of a coming disappointment.”And my disappointment, not having any hair to comb anymore!!

   I will often heat up a bit of milk on a cold winter night to make some hot chocolate. I can still remember my grandmother warning me to not let the milk boil over. It's bad luck.

Really Gram?

   This is one I am not too sure about either.

   “You sleep best with your head to the north and your feet to the south.”

Truth is I can sleep regardless of which direction my head is pointing, whether it be north, south, east or west. As long as my eyes are closed....

   Stars also seem to be a common topic for wives tales and folklore. What child has not been told that... “all wishes on shooting stars come true.” Well, I'm, still waiting! 

   Or, “star light, star bright. first star I see tonight. I wish I may, I wish I might have the wish I wish tonight.”

   Unfortunately, it didn't work for me last night. Maybe for a wish to come true it needs to be both the first star and a shooting star. And the chances of that happening?

    It was time for another glass of wine and that was a 'wish' I could make come true. My hope was that when I got back from pouring myself another glass the discussion would have changed... and it did. But now everyone was talking about 'deflated balls' and Tom Brady. Hmm. I wonder if Tom has any old wives tales he would like to share? 

It's not always easy to come up with 500 words...

   Panic. Disappointment. There has got to be something out there to write about, but I just couldn't come up with anything. For the last consecutive 166 weeks I have always had something to say. Include the 2 ½ years of writing for the newspaper before that and it has been many weeks when I have managed to write about something.

   Admittedly, some has been good and others, well, not so good. But I always had something to say. But this past week, for last Sunday's usual post, I had really disappointed myself. After 166 weeks...nothing!

   Some of the time I get my ideas and 'inspiration' from the news, whether it be world, state of local. But it was a terrible week in the news. The devastating earthquakes in Nepal, the train crash in Philadelphia, a “shoot-out' of biker gangs in Texas, a Governor threatening to campaign against those 'we elect' to represent us if they don't pass his version of a new taxation plan.

   No question about it. The news has been terrible and maybe really affected the way I saw the world last week. I'll admit it. Perhaps I need to turn off the television or turn down the radio for a few days. Even the Red Sox have had a terrible road trip on the West Coast.

   But then, while riding in the car, there was a very heart warming story on MPR about a small town coming together to help a family struggling with the serious illness of their young son and the financial toll it was taking on the family. And the purpose of the story, to show there are people in small towns across the country who still care, who still help.

   I don't always get my ideas from the news reporting. I could have written about the scene in the parking lot at the local food store, where a teenage boy, and I assume his mother, were engaged in a loud, verbal and quickly moving toward a physical confrontation argument, loud enough that it attracted a great deal of attention from those walking to and from the store to their cars. Someone must have called the police, for just at that moment a police car came around the corner. As the office got out of his car, the mother got into her vehicle and drove away, leaving the boy standing in the parking lot. (My suspicion is that the police may already know the family.)

   One of my favorite spots for inspiration comes from the local auction. Each Sunday from March until December several hundred people from near and far gather to talk, spend money, brag about their latest rare find and to share in the joy of one of Robin's famous egg, cheese and ham breakfast sandwiches. But this week, with the exception of the sandwich, there was little, if any inspiration. In fact, folks seemed to be a bit testy. But that may have been only me. All these new people, where are they coming from? Someone needs to teach them how to 'bid'.

     On the corner of my desk sits a wooden block, the size a child might use to build a fort or castle, a gift from my daughter. This block has pictures and author's names and partial titles of many of the classic, squeezed on to the 6 sides of the two inch block. Yes...it's a writer's block! And despite how firmly I held it in my hand, there was no inspiration from Steinbeck or any others.

   I really felt as though I had let myself down this week, and my readers too. I had set a goal, but.....something went wrong this week.

    I had two choices. I could sit around all day and fret, frustrating myself even more or...I could get outside in the fresh air, under a bright blue sky, and work in the garden, pulling the few remaining weed of last year and begin planting this year's crop of brightly colored annuals. I opted for choice number two. And besides, the Red Sox game wouldn't be on until later in the day. Let's see. 4 pm West Coast time is....wow...really late here!    :)

                                     

                                       

There is no shortage of....

   The lack of any significant seasonal rain and snow has only compounded and contributed to the continuing drought in the western part of the United States. The claims of a shortage of a  well trained and skilled workforce, due in large part to an aging and retiring population, has begun to put pressure on American industry and manufacturing. And one cannot overlook the growing demand for teachers, educators and healthcare professionals across the country, especially in rural areas?

   But there is one area where there appears to be no shortage. I am referring to the number of candidates in the early running for President of the United States in 2016. Now,  some may see this as a 'positive', a revival of the public's spirit and interest in the political process. In the past it was a process that made our country great and strong, producing powerful and influential leaders, leaders with a vision for the future. 
   Others may view this as a time when the American political system is broken, suffering from discontent and turmoil and may be the first step in the years to come that reveals the challenges and limitations of the current  somewhat antiquated “two party” system. 
   Now, don't get me wrong. I like having choices. Although a bit before my generation, there was a time when the only color car available to buy was painted black. Then, after a few years and a number of complaints, there was a choice, black or gray, then black, gray or white and today, cars come in many different colors and styles too, from two door, to four door, to even a five door (hatchback style).

   My point is that.... times change and so do the public demands. Very few of us would be happy if all we had to choose was a black car with only two doors.

   But why are  so many people running for President at this time? Is it for power and control? Greed? Perhaps it is to leave a personal legacy. How about  over-sized egos. Research and political analysts indicates there may be five or six reasons. 
   Some people run, claiming they wish to address the nation's problems and have the solutions. If that were only true. But there may be other reasons.

   Franklin Roosevelt and Ronald Reagan ran with the “promise to change the direction of the country”. With the Office of President comes a position of power and with power comes the ability to influence and force changes.

   Some view running for President as a way to make history. Did you know that as early as 1872, the first woman ran for President. Not only a woman, but an African-American woman (and women couldn't even vote then, let alone any African-American). It was almost 100 years before another woman would attempt to run for the highest elected political office in the land.

   Some candidates run to “make a point,” Whether it is to express opposition to a war or are  displeased with the way the current administration does business, candidates will often use their candidacy as a way to declare their personal and  political dissatisfaction about certain issues or more likely, someone.

   There are some who will declare a run for office with a secret intent 'not' to win but to use it as a pathway or stepping stone to another place, getting the name out their. In the business world, I believe this is called 'branding'. In the world of politics I think I might call it an 'evil' deception and a misuse of democracy and democratic principles.

   Family traditions and political dynasties have been a reason that people will seek to run for the office. There are several familiar names in this year's list of potential contenders. But Adams, Kennedy, Dole and Bush are names from past Presidential races that we all remember. Some won and others, well........

   There are some who decide to run for office, knowing they may have a very slim chance of ever getting elected, but then, all of a sudden. Who ever expected Jimmy Carter to get nominated, much less win the election. I suspect the 'classy' video at the Democratic Convention that year and then shown throughout the campaign may have had some impact on his being elected. I think it was the smile and the teeth. The American election system can and does often work in mysterious ways.

   Not everyone who runs for President gets elected. With  twenty declared and yet-to-declare, that surely will be the case next year. The sad fact is that in the mix of candidates are some who could do a great job of leading the nation, but when the primaries are all said and done, all the money spent and the final candidates have been selected, perhaps the best may be sitting on the sideline, only to watch and wait for the final outcome and dream about 'next time'.

   But the good news, there are only 551 days until the 2016 Presidential election. And the bad news? There are 552 days until the campaign starts for the 2020 election.

                                       

PS. And contrary to popular opinion, I am not running for office. Maybe next time!   :)

“Mirror, mirror on the wall,”

   Those famous and memorable words come from the children's classic story “Beauty and the Beast.” No wait, that's not right. They come from the Grimm Brothers fairy tale of “Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs,” where an ugly old queen looks into a mirror, asking who is the fairest in the land, while the 'fairest in the land' actually lives in the safety and friendship deep in the woods.
   We have become a society obsessed with appearance. If we are not trying to catch a glimpse of ourselves in a mirror, we look for a reflection in the nearest window. Perhaps it would be more accurate to describe the obsession as ...how we would like to see ourselves!

   The history of the mirror dates back many centuries, when highly polished metal would reflect light and images. Greco-Roman solders would use shiny pieces of metal to insure  their uniforms were on straight and their helmets were atop their heads pointed in the 'right' direction.

   Today's version of the mirror was discovered in 1835.  This new mirror consisted of coating a piece of glass with metallic silver. Reflecting on its long history, mirrors have been used as household objects as well as decoration.

   But, what young girl has not held a mirror in her hand and gazed at her reflection, debating whether to change hair style. What young teenage boy has not stood in front of a full length mirror, dressed in a tuxedo, holding in his stomach and pretending to be James Bond (not that I ever did that).

   Over time, I have discovered the mirror can become either a friend or an enemy. Waking up after only a few hours of sleep and looking into the bathroom mirror can be a horrific experience. Oh my!. When did I get that tattoo? 

  There are several rumors about mirrors. It is believed  that if one breaks a mirror, it will bring seven years of bad luck. Why seven? Why not six or eight? By the way, I have one more year to go to reach seven.
   If you are looking into a mirror and see the shadow of another face staring back at you, watch out! It could be a bad day.

   To the contrary, a peek in the mirror after a new haircut or some  pampering can  instill confidence and reassurance. Boy! I look great!! I will get that new job. Or maybe, just maybe, this time she'll say "yes" and go to the prom with me.

   Sometimes mirrors can play tricks. They can make us look taller or shorter, fatter or thinner. Remember the mirrors in the 'fun house' at the carnival. 

   People will use mirrors to make things look larger (stop laughing), like a mirrored wall to  give the illusion of a room being larger than it is. My, I have gained some weight over the winter. It must be the mirror.

   There is always the 'rear view mirror'. No one is going to sneak up on me! Unfortunately some of us go through life only looking in the rear view mirror. If I had only.........

   I know people who talk to themselves in the mirror. The great thing about a mirror-talk is that it doesn't talk back, but a mirror also doesn't  lie. What you see is what you get,' right back at you.'

   Not that I am guilty of this, but few can walk past a mirror without sneaking a peek. Oops, there's broccoli in my teeth from lunch. So that's why the interview didn't go well.

   “Who is the fairest of them all?” Like the ugly queen or even the beast in “Beauty and the Beast”, perhaps the true reflection of who we are does not come from a mirror, but  may actually come from those around us, those who see us as we truly are, not as a reflection.. While stunning in a mirror, in real life, we may be pretty ugly.

   So the next time you take a look in the mirror, remember that who you see may not be who you think you see.